Here's a cuppla concepts that might be a bit over your head but I'll lay 'em out there anyway blah:

1. Whatever perception of anything one chooses to view anything with resides in the viewer/interpreter and not the speaker.No matter what I say I have no responsibility in how you choose to perceive or interpret it, that's all on you, not me.

2. Believing you have any part in anyones happiness but your own is a fallacy of the highest order. Your own happiness and mental state is the only thing you truly have the power to effect any amount of change to. Believing otherwise is to believe one has more personal power than is plausible.

The only hinging tenet of the above 2 statements is if one is speaking truth and not with an intention of doing harm intentionally to another with thier words. If your intention is to do such harm then all bets are off

I have tried for years to always attempt to make my own thoughts as transparent as possible to negate any need for interpretation after the fact, so if you interpret them as different from how they are written please understand you must also accept all responsibility for any such interpretations